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DO's & DON'TS

I have added a couple of do's & don'ts to this page to add onto the action stage when courting a female. Here are a couple of common likes and dislikes amongst young women today.

DO Compliment (Sincerely)

 

 

Nothing boosts a woman's self esteem more than compliments (especially from men!). You would be surprised how much of an impact you could have on your lady friend's day just by pointing out the things about her that you like. So, if you see she got a new hair cut or a new dress, compliment her on it! (ONLY IF YOU LIKE IT) Don't lie to us. If you don't like something, you're better off not saying anything at all.

 

When it comes to complimenting a female, there are boundaries. Too many compliments makes you sound very needy and insincere. No woman wants to sit with you for more than an hour hearing about how beautiful she is (unless she's a narcissist... But who wants one of those?!?) Little to no compliments will start to make her feel a little insecure. She will start asking herself things like "Is he not interested in me?" or "Should I have worn something different?" or "Am I doing something wrong?"

 

DON'T Cling!!!!!!

 

You have got to give a female her breathing space. If she's not responding to your texts, DMs, etc. she's not interested. If you have sent 2 or more unanswered messages to her inbox, CONGRATULATIONS you've scared her away! Blowing up her inbox day in and day out is only going to annoy her and make you look, dare I say, "thirsty." You're best bet is to wait for her to text YOU back. Believe me, she saw the first message (unless her phone is broken or lost).... and the second... and the third... and by the fourth, she's on the phone with her handler trying to get your number blocked. And if that doesn't work, by the fifth text she's considering changing her number.

 

You do not need to hang out and talk to her every minute of everyday. Give her time to miss you. Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder!

DO Check up on her!

 

You don't want your lady of interest to forget about you, do you? Well that's exactly what will happen if you don't take the time to check up on her periodically. And I'm not talking about once a year! A little text message or phone call every other week or so is enough to keep you on her mind and keep her interested. Even a "Hey, let's have lunch" here and there can make all the difference. It doesn't have to be a date, but at least let her know she's still relevant to your life before she moves on to the next guy!


 

DON'T Try to buy love! 

 

This is one thing that blows my mind everytime I see it.

1.Guy likes girl.

2.Girl doesn't like guy.

3.Guy buys girl things anyway.

4.Girl takes free things, then takes off.

5.Guy mopes.

6.Repeat. 

 

Yes, it is no secret that women love gifts (especially if she's a broke, hungry college student). So you cannot expect her to turn down, say, free food that you happened to offer because she's not that into you. Instead of flashing your cash first, take the time to show her that you have a little bit of substance. Of course every girl claims she wants a "baller". But trust me, if he's not holding her interest in any other way who's really winning in the end? 

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